Return to Hurst shingle bank....
So today for the first time in nearly twenty years I returned to the coastal town of Keyhaven ,,hat is home to the Hurst shingle bank, a place I spent time with my father and fishing buddy Mark. I returned this time with Claire and my 3 boys. I was full of apprehension going back, not knowing what to expect the landscape to be like and, how much it had changed, not knowing how I would feel being there without dad....
When we arrived we parked in an all too familiar lay by and everything was exactly as I remembered it, which was good. The boys proceeded to climb over the rocks that act as a break water for the waves to prevent flooding, as we sat on the rocks I closed my eyes and once more I could remember so vividly my last trip there. My mate Mark catching bass from the breakers, the smell of bait, my dear old Dad trying to make the most of the holes in the rocks and use them as a toilet whilst I was tying yet another rig after cracking off trying to reach the isle of Wight!! (which I never did by the way!)
It Was then that the sound of one of my boys laughing got my attention and as I looked round I realised that although the memories there were priceless ones I will never forget, I realised that I was now the parent and I was doing the same with my kids and Claire and they are all that matters now.
Its time to make memories for my kids now,life is far too short and my mums health continues to dwindle on a weekly basis. So in short, enjoy life, live life like every day is your last, you only get one chance at it, dont ever take life for granted, so many friends and family have fallen along lifes journey and I want to be around for my boys as long as I can...
Stevex
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